My mother died of COVID-19 and I'm immunocompromised (among them chronic respiratory probs, and yet I survive wearing a mask). Going outdoors among an antipathetic populace who are unable to put a little something on for their travels, with runners and cyclers passing close from the side, has made it a situation for me to get prescriptions, visit doctors etc. It shouldn't have to be, just as Mom didn't have to die, and our numbers would be so much lower if only these did the right thing and thought about others. But of course, unless someone drops dead right there it won't happen
It is a social thing, a vanity thing. They are embarrassed. Are doctors embarrassed too? It is an illusion to feel better about themselves without thinking of consequences they have no control over.
Here is what I saw:
I was in a takeout place last week and some large character with a chin guard stepped out with his purchase. On the sidewalk he ran into an acquaintance: a younger, smaller guy in a mask. The moment they chatted the younger guy pulled his mask below his nose. By the end of 2 minutes they went separate ways, only this time both were wearing chin guards.
Wouldn't it be nice not to wear a mask? Some people can't wear anything anymore - ever again. People every day in this city are diagnosed. And let's not forget where COVID-19 activity has been most prevalent: here. Corona, Jackson Heights, Elmhurst, East Elmhurst...
Don't tell me you're sorry for my Mother's death. It would be disingenuous and not the point anyway.