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Offline NYC Peromyscus

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Don't Walk on the Grass
« on: May 20, 2016, 07:07:03 AM »
Had heard about this but now has a write-up in the NYTimes:

http://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/22/realestate/co-op-wars-do-you-dare-walk-on-the-grass.html

Pretty much while I will never buy another co-op after selling my current place.  Our building went through some similar issues (not grass, as we don't have much!)...priority of many older residents is to never change or improve anything because it might cost money.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2016, 07:25:24 AM »
 Hooray for green open spaces!! JH has had them forever but the overly restricted use baffled many. Now precedent can
be used with more co-op boards to loosen the reins. Lawns are high maintenance, luxury items and should be shared by
all if they are that buildings asset. Play dates at your house/lawn coming right up.
 On another note, our co-op has been in a constant project phase hopping from one major improvement to the next. We
would like a break from this omnipresent urge to change it all up.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2016, 09:12:48 AM »
I remember reading the house rules on the Berkley's website a couple of years ago, after I looked at an apartment there. There were specific restrictions about behavior in the garden area, including some about walking on the grass. Overall their big list of rules was so unfriendly and intimidating, it made me wonder if that was the sort of place I wanted to move to. 

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2016, 10:28:45 AM »
I remember reading the house rules on the Berkley's website a couple of years ago, after I looked at an apartment there. There were specific restrictions about behavior in the garden area, including some about walking on the grass. Overall their big list of rules was so unfriendly and intimidating, it made me wonder if that was the sort of place I wanted to move to. 
This must have been a number of years ago. On a recent Jackson Heights Beautification Group garden tour (one is coming up
again in early June) the Berkeley was super friendly. Wide open lawn with picnic tables and I think they were the group that had
cookies too. Friend from another JH co-op and me both agreed that this was one to choose based on their inclusivity.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #4 on: May 21, 2016, 07:17:31 AM »
I have lived in the Berkeley for 8 years and all 8 years walking on the grass has been allowed and even encouraged.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #5 on: May 22, 2016, 06:55:43 AM »
I think some people who live in the Berkeley are still having problems there because a friend of mine went out of his way to post that article on social media, and his family lives there.  That NYT piece made me feel happier about moving.  Having experienced the garden police myself it is disturbing and unnerving to live with a beautiful garden and not be allowed to walk in it with your child.  I wish I was exaggerating, but I assure you, I am not. 

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #6 on: May 23, 2016, 01:28:03 AM »
itsit and Bailey, I guess I must be remembering wrong. I just looked at their house rules and even though they were updated in 2014, and probably looked at them the year before, I doubt any major change was made. Maybe it was the pets-in-the-garden rules and fines that I was thinking of.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #7 on: May 23, 2016, 09:42:19 PM »
As a resident of the Berkley Gardens for well over 20 years I can tell you that residents along with their guests are allowed to walk on the grass! Pets are welcomed as well on the south end of our lawn, and lastly the Berkley does hand out cookies to all during the Garden Tour.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #8 on: May 29, 2016, 04:52:57 PM »
In the article it says But given human nature, barbecues, which were sanctioned in paved areas behind apartment houses, began to spill out onto the grass. Children were occasionally spotted darting across the lawn. 
Can anyone please verify if BBQ's are allowed in Hawthorne Court?

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #9 on: May 29, 2016, 07:01:43 PM »
BBQs allowed in Hawthorne Ct in a house's individual "bay" only. Each house, however, can outlaw them for their own house, because of cooking smells that might disturb other residents, etc. Each house is its own coop. BBQs not allowed in the common areas (north end, south end, center circle) except for court-wide occasions. Reason is that it is not fair for individuals to take over common areas for their own exclusive use for an evening, or whatever. Common areas are common areas, and should be open to all Hawthorne Court residents at all times, thus they are not to be used for private parties. Each house has its own bay for that purpose. People who are outraged at any limits on garden use are not thinking clearly. These gardens have to be maintained and cared for at considerable expense to the coops. They are not public parks. The noise made by groups of children or by private parties is genuinely disturbing to other residents at times, who have the right to have their needs considered, too. There have to be limits on garden use. Ball playing, for instance, is a legal risk. It once happened that a resident was hit by a ball thrown by a child in the garden, and his nose was broken. He was holding his infant at the time and the infant could have been hurt. I hope everyone can understand why that would be a problem. There could be a lawsuit. There could be a tragic injury. That's why there is no ball playing allowed, ever, no matter what kind of ball is involved. It's the same reason there are traffic laws. I find it astounding that some people seem to think that they should have total freedom to do whatever they want in a common, jointly owned, shared garden.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #10 on: May 30, 2016, 07:48:09 AM »
Ljr, many thanks for the reply,  it makes perfect sense.. 

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #11 on: May 30, 2016, 10:04:47 AM »
I live in a private home but have been following this conversation.  When people buy into such coops don't they read the house rules?  These private spaces are gardens, not playgrounds.  I imagine if the demographic changes within a coop  then house rules can be amended.  Personally,  I would not want to spend all that money and have to be disturbed by kids screaming outside my widow. That's what I'd be looking to get away from.  That plus all the noise pollution from the street. To me, a garden is a refuge. A place of peace and reflection.  Bar-b-ques?????   I don't think so.  I have friends in the Towers and they have a separate area for kids away from all the buildings.  That seems to be a better solution rather than destroying a garden.

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Re: Don't Walk on the Grass
« Reply #12 on: May 30, 2016, 10:41:18 AM »
I live in a private home but have been following this conversation.  When people buy into such coops don't they read the house rules? 


i've lived in the same co-op since 2002. when i bought my apartment, we had 18 house rules, each of which ran one or two sentences, and the whole thing fit on one page. simple stuff like "no dogs except those already grandfathered in," "no unreasonable noise between the hours of 10 PM and six AM," "no loose trash in the compactor chutes."

the latest version is up to around 18 pages, with abundant sub-topics, footnotes and ephemera. i love my apartment, and most of my neighbors, but if i were presented with this whopper of a rules doc, i *might* not have been as eager to buy in.