just to clarify/defend my suggestion about music in the restaurant. I'm definitely not suggesting loud, distracting music--anything but that. In fact, I am a musician who has sacrificed a bit of my hearing to my vocation and the last thing I want is too much ambient noise interfering with good conversation and good friends. Nope, that's no good. I'm just suggesting that an attention to music that suggests a time and place, a vibe, an attention to atmosphere and ambience--be it Nick Drake, be it Max Roach, be it Delroy Wilson, be it Patsy Cline, whatever--is preferable to just playing the radio or Pandora (or, heaven forbid, a blasting TV). Just the feeling that the proprietor took the time to invent another world, an escape, an oasis, a good time for the customer. And then, yes, keep it at an acceptable volume. Okay, enough on that.
But it is a good time to suggest the frustrations and semi-failures of Arunee. And I welcome any attacks on my opinion here. It seemed so great when it opened--nice decor in particular. But it was something that already existed before, doing something that at least 4 other restaurants (Ayada, Zabb Elee, Playground, Kitchen 79) do better and then added spotty service and, by some reports, outright rudeness. I guess it's just sad when something comes so close but doesn't get there. Stew, from everything you're saying, I feel that you get it. And I'm looking forward to your restaurant.